dangerous mistakes men make and
how to avoid them.
1. Being too nice and showing too
much interest:
When a man meets a woman he is
very interested in, he tends to become
over-accommodating and
starts acting extra nice. He do things like, laugh at things that aren’t too
funny. He agrees with everything she
says. Offer to help her in any way
that he can and he will generally
display to her that he is willing to do
whatever she asks of him in exchange for her to like him. A woman doesn’t
feel attracted to a man who presents
himself to her as a subservient
servant. Once a woman knows that
you are willing to do anything to be
with her, all the challenge is gone and she immediately loses all interest and
attraction for that man. She will
simply look for ways of taking
advantage of you .You want to show
her that you have personal power and
don’t need to suck up to her in order to get her love and approval. Keep
your power because a woman wants
to date a powerful man, not a
subservient wimp.
2 Not Taking The Lead In An
Interaction:
Most men try to get the woman to
lead the interaction and conversation;
this is a huge mistake and makes
women lose attraction immediately. Asking a woman a string of questions
just to get her talking is not the way
to gain rapport with her and make
her like you. When you put all the
pressure on a woman to lead the
interaction and do all the talking she will get annoyed and leave. Take the
lead in your conversations with
women. Be funny in a real way,make
her enjoy talking with you,have a
good sense of humour and be bold
with it. Lead the conversation where you want it to go.
3. Thinking Of What To Say Next
When talking to an attractive woman;
men are usually up in their heads
thinking about what they’re going to
say next. When you are up in your
head instead of in the present moment really listening to her then she is not
going to feel much connection with
you. She is going to see that you look
distracted; she will think you aren’t
really listening to her and don’t care
about what she has to say. When you are thinking about what you are
going to say next you lose the
intimate connection that is necessary
to develop with a woman in order for
her to feel attracted to you. Instead of
thinking about what to say next, be in the moment, get present in your body
and really listen to her. Once you start
listening to her, you will connect with
her because you are being in the
moment; and when you are in the
moment the woman can feel a true connection with you.
4. Trying To Impress Women:
A lot of men think they have to
impress a woman into liking them; this
is wrong. Sitting there
talking about yourself and how great
you are does very little to stimulate interest or attraction in a woman.
When a woman sees that you are
obsessed with yourself and always
talking about your possessions and
accomplishments, she’s going to think
you are a selfish self centred man. Leave her to find out the best in you,
stop being full of yourself,let her keep
guessing your worth. What a woman
wants is a man who cares about her
and wants to connect with her and
learn about her hopes and dreams. Forget about impressing a woman
and instead focus on connecting with
her. Get curious about her, her life,
her dreams, passions, struggles; once
you do this the woman will feel very
connected and safe with you. Once she feels connected and safe then her next
emotion is usually attraction.
5. Telling Her You Like Her Too Soon:
A lot of times you meet a woman that
you really like and you will have this
powerful urge to express to her how
crazy you are about her; don’t do
this! Many men make the mistake of expressing their interest to a woman
too soon and then the woman is
turned off and runs away. You need
to always keep a woman suspended
between hope and doubt; a woman
wants a challenge. A woman believes that you are lying to her when you
are too quick to say you like her,she
would feel that its a normal slang
used by all guys. Take time to know if
she is really the one. Don’t be too
quick to think you have found the girl of your dreams. The minute a woman
sense you are all over her, she may
take you for granted ,she loses interest
in you. You need to show her a little
interest and then balance that interest
with displays of disinterest; this will always keep her guessing about you
and keep you a challenge in her eyes
6. Talking About Negative Things:
When you meet a woman, never talk
about anything negative. Most men
tend to talk about a lot of negative
things when they first meet a woman;
he talks about his ex girlfriend, his break up, how
he is struggling at work, how crappy
the weather is etc. Women hate this;
they just want someone who will make
them feel happy. So always make sure
you only talk about positive fun things when you are with a woman.
Take her on an adventure and allow
her to forget about her mundane
troublesome life. She wants a man
who will add excitement and joy to
her life, not bring her down into the dumps.
7. Having Weak Body Language:
When you are talking to a beautiful
woman don’t fidget or move around
too much. A woman is attracted to a
man who is confident and
comfortable in his own skin. If you are nervous, fidgeting, looking around a
lot, speaking too quickly and not
keeping strong eye contact ,then the
woman is going to sense that you are
weak and her attraction will die. Be
calm and strong in the presence of a woman. Make your movements slow
and relaxed, keep strong eye contact,
speak slowly, breath slowly, be as
relaxed as possible. An alpha male is
always relaxed and in control of
himself and the situation; that’s what women are attracted to.
8. Not Dressing Properly Or Being Well
Groomed
If you want a beautiful woman in
your life you have to present yourself
in an attractive fashion. A
lot of men have a very unattractive style. Make sure you don’t wear
runners with jeans. Wear black socks
with pants and white socks with
shorts. Make sure your clothes fit your
body and look good on you. Always
shower and smell good. Make sure all your body hairs are trimmed
including nose and ear hair if you
have them. A woman judges you by
your style, how you are groomed and
how well you take care of your body.
A woman wants a healthy, clean, stylish man; not a slob. The way you
take care of yourself tells her a lot
about how well you will take care of
her.
9. Take your time. Don’t be pushy or
needy:
Nice girls normally need longer time
than boys to develop deep feelings.
Continue courting her by following the
steps above, but don’t rush things. If you end up in a relationship with this
girl, she’ll always remember how you
made her feel when you were just
getting to know each other.
Make her feel appreciated, not
invisible or smothered. Do the chase slowly and gently (but steadily) to
reduce fear of s*xual advances (if
any), avoid looking desperate, and to
allow her to get accustomed to a new
man in her life. Do not force the
relationship; carefully look for clues on where and when you can see her
again.
10. Stop calling her every time: Some
guys believe they have to call a girl
every minute to know how she is
fearing ,they put a call through in the
morning, afternoon, evening,
night ,even at mid-night. No!!!, Girls get easily irritated by this, they want
you to give them space,not a sense of
desperation. Learn to do things you
can continue in the proper
relationship.
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