Sunday, 1 December 2013

3 sign u could b a sex addict

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While the experts debate there is criteria
for compulsive s*xual behavior, the symptoms include:
– s*xual impulses which
are intense and appear beyond your control
– Using compulsive s*xual behavior(s) to escape other
problems such as depression, anxiety, stress and/or
loneliness
– Having trouble establishing or maintaining close,
intimate relationships, even if you're married or in a
committed relationship
But just because you engage in raunchy talk or visit
strip clubs, however, doesn't mean you have an
obsession with s*x. For some men a trip to a
'gentleman's club' or talking s*x with their guy friends is
merely a defense mechanism, according to Dr.
Hokemeyer. "I find that men visit unclad bars in large
measure out of peer pressure and to be 'one of the
boys.' Rarely do I see patients visit these bars alone,"
he says.
Nor does s*x addiction always equate to a high s*x
drive. Some experts believe that s*x addicts get more
satisfaction from the psychological triggers rather than
the physiological pleasures of s*x itself. "Typically the
s*x act itself is secondary to the hunt for s*x, the
'closing of the deal,' and the feelings of either guilt,
shame, or elation that occur after the person achieves
climax," explains Hokemeyer.
How to Get Help
What most experts do agree on is that compulsive
s*xual or "hypersexual" behavior can be extremely
damaging to those it affects both directly and indirectly.
If you feel that your preoccupation with s*x is running
your life or pushing your partner, job, loved ones to the
side — there is help. The aim of treatment is not to
insist on abstinence but rather to suppress what's
deemed 'unhealthy' s*xual behavior.
In addition to consulting a mental health professional
you can also take the anonymous route, with an
organization such as s*x Addicts Anonymous. Whether
classified a disease or not, s*x addiction is recognized,
and real, and there is help.
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